Are you seeking a relationship with a like-minded person who has a positive outlook on life? Have you found meeting this type of individual to be a challenge?

Many of us have this problem! What we may not realize is that we may have the people around us that we do, because we are as positive as we could be.

Positive People Attract Other Positive People

As the old saying goes, to have a friend first you must be a friend. So when you’re setting out to attract positive people into your life, you must first be positive! If your thoughts, words, actions, and lifestyle are positive, you can more easily find the kind of people that share your same views, goals, and interests. They’ll be drawn to you because positive people can only find other positive people. If you’ve got a sour attitude about anything, positive people won’t come anywhere near you!

Changing Yourself to Help You Meet Positive People

One tool that can help you be a more open and positive source of energy yourself, is affirmations, or their powerful variant, afformations.

When you use affirmations or afformations, you’ll quickly become more attractive to the kind of people you’re looking for. Be prepared though for the fact that not everyone will be happy about the new positive you and you’ll have to both recognise that and be prepared to deal with it!

Affirmations can change your life, one thought at a time. Plus, they’re free and available to you 24 hours a day!

How to Make Affirmations Work for You

Free affirmations can work for anyone who makes the conscious choice to change their life for the better.

For example, if you doubt your ability to attract positive people, you can turn that into it’s opposite which might look something like, “I am a magnet for rewarding relationships.” Every time you say this out loud, you reaffirm this thought in your mind and you’re closer to making it your own truth.

You could also use affirmations such as, “I surround myself with positive people, just like me.” Every time you use these affirmations you remind yourself of your goals and activate your mind to behave as a successful person would. Be mindful though that disciplines like EFT say that affirmations usually come with a silent ‘tail ender’ – a “yes but” that can stop you in your tracks. If you’re aware of one, just use EFT to clear it out!

If you have goals of meeting positive people, you simply need to act in a way that will allow you to become more confident in yourself, and the rest will follow.

Where Do You Get Affirmations?

You can find many lists of affirmations in bookstores or on self-help websites. Or you can make up your own! The key is to create affirmations that are focused on the positive and written in the present tense. Affirmations are about the present, the now, not the past or future.

It’s also important to use statements that most clearly describe the way you would like to think or feel in any given situation.

Words have power because they evoke emotions, so choose affirmations that evoke the necessary emotions for you to achieve your goals.

When you believe in the power of the statements you repeat to yourself, you enable yourself to change the way you view relationships, the people you attract, and your life.